Width
of the smile narrows...hand over her to anyone else. The first rejection of a girl....faults??Nothing
other than she is a girl.
When
she grows,at each stage she is restricted. A boy is always admired and loved for his undisciplined
works but in case of girl no one praises her for disciplined works even. In
case of school choice parents choose a better option for boys rather than
girls...fault?? She is a girl after all. Boys get average score, very good. Girl
gets highest marks...normal... she had to do that....no choice...
When it
comes for higher education, Boy should go for that at any cost...girl?? No
chance...
Even if
opportunity comes, she is not allowed to go far. If family allows her then
society do not. They look her, stare at her, they too apodyopsis her. She is
treated based on her beauty. If someone will ask her what is your fault she
will say being a girl is my fault.
If she
has to do something, she can do at home otherwise marriage will be on cards.
Choice of life partner!!!Does it happen...!! All along the life she has been
dreaming of a perfect partner for life but she is forced to smile with 10 yrs
older, 12 yrs, even about of double age... huh perfect guy!! And marriage what will she take what to wear
nothing of her choice. How to talk, how to walk, how to laugh, how to even
sleep, none are of her choice...
After
marriage, so many expectations she bears. She has to tolerate each ups and down.
Have to alert about each nook and corner. Have to rise early, have to sleep after
each person sleeps...why??? She is a girl u know?She
has to adjust with all. She has to forget her family and make a new start,a
new family. Which judges more than giving a company. And then a baby is
wanted. But on a condition, only boy is wanted...what!!!Is it
possible in part of a mother to decide the gender of her child!! Yet it is needed.
Even when she becomes mother, children start judging her. She is always the
victim and survivor.
What do
you think? She has never raised her voice against all these things? Yes she
did. She explained many times, but none listened. She argued then but was
ignored. She protested but none cared. She fought and still fighting. Yes she
is fighting a never ending war. She is not fighting for a female dominant
society. She is fighting for parity and she will fight as long as this
disparity continues.
She
is strong. She is determined. She is energy. She is a woman. Do not judge her. If
you can’t be with her then be her for a minute.
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